wchs cd7

WCHS DVD 07 Escuta so Essa

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pennies you said yesterday that there are stories that have no point I did there even though there's something happening that the stories that I have no say their point it means when they come to an end its climax is like expected big you know final Clash of Heroes and so on and nothing really happens those are the stories where all the all the fun of them is read the telling of

international journey hence the money she story which the ending of riches course pointless useless he has no meaning but actually one of the stories I get engaged in the excitement and the drama on all things are happening between so that's going to mean by pointless not that the toilet itself is pointless it's that you are free from the tyranny of having to make a dramatic ending and

I mean going through what he once upon a time I used to believe that my way and I P trainers who shall remain nameless told really purposeful stories in the late daughter out really carefully and they were so clever you know create these elaborate tapestries of stories and and in some ways that was a bit of a problem for me because you know i i heard stories about all the things that they gone and done and I thought well they can do it I can't I went out and

did it tried it but quickly called artistic license here and then I realized that complexity to gather enough stuff out there then you get naturally get interesting resonances occurring between the different stories are you telling that come because of the connections that you make and more importantly every single person in the audience takes their own specific lesson from a particular part they got there they come up to you that something had

to do know that go yes if you want to encourage mystique you know to be honest you go well done thank you for getting that lesson thank you thank you going to do something that was from something that was sick yesterday the notion that if you ask someone what their favorite book was from early childhood and get a sense of what they life is like that before price goes into

what we'll be talking about today so can you give an example like like my for example I remember my name is Robyn and its cool guy my name is Robyn manual the guy before me in when they called registration was called crystalline called out the registers always Christopher Robin yes now my life is strange you like wandering through it by myself I think I think especially when they remember that you know and it's made a powerful impact

impact on it and it's not funny like when I when I first came to England the first things are the first images from the earliest images of fiction that I have in my mind our little poem or nursery rhyme one of the two of themactually one of them is who killed cock Robin she know that the second one that something had to go after going to trust find out about Robin hiding his head under the wing and his ring when the winds

currents and Robin Hood identified with those berksten you know and I've been hiding in the woods stealing from the rich to give to the poor ever since what you want to do you have any money today I noticed lol yea or if they're abandoned outside the lucky that my men in green any other questions or comments ahead I yesterday sharing stories and it's like my partnership story then it sort of trick

it up another story with me backwards and forwards between the two of us really getting a close connection that they had worked thank you for sharing that it's Michael isn't it yeah absolutely and I mean if there's one thing I hope you will go away from this weekend with its this is how we communicate this is naturally what we do and you know the process of becoming better as a storyteller simply and and better

presenting yourself in a way which is congressman with your true values and effective influencing and persuading people in the world is simply just becoming conscious more of what you doing and and then handing it back over to your natural sense of what works thank you very much and then he goes I don't know that is just like when you relax a person just like hitting them in the brain with the break and then just acting like it never

happened out here is my take on human general things that make things really funny is if you go first if you find it hysterical people just get pulled into that right so you have to be able to appreciate the humor situation to as a rule I think that a lot of humor comes from a party Bank of America leveraged deal with novelty and when something new happens it could have just paid attention to figure out it's dangerous trafficking of rain run more fighters

from my that is not dangerous than all that psychological and just go somewhere and I think that usually gets through dissipating humor so if you get surprised by something else have you been surprised they started laughing occasionally really get surprised that crying laughing and not sure I happy or unhappy about it right so you know I'm not we're not here doing stand-up comedy shop or actually my dad could be HUGE if you lead mind and heart and sunny switch

directions unexpected that's what funds come in you know where they think they are one thing but actually saying another surprise that can be whether humor comes in a lot of human way through in fact you can tell a very serious story and respond at the end and investor people really start laughing about it democracy story was pretty serious proud when the huge amount of humor in it

I wasn't until right at the end you had a choice of either lynching me as a mob laughing I'm very happy chose laughter cuz I was entirely sure to be honest we go we had actually arranged an escape plan we had the reason for this curtain is to the door and something men with guns car engine running and the other side of course we have stories like the one province hold which was in itself actually quite tragic but all the action within it was humorous it was

caricatured in many ways as exaggerations that really took different places and you clearly enjoyed telling the story I want doing it so i think you must more complex than just say we have to start with the beginning and lots of different ways of doing it will just go with what's there for you if you got a more quiet and sedate character then straight man felt quite a story the end of it will go away now and it's only slowly they dropped a salad roll on the

floor laughing if you're more of a comic character you know the Joker jump around killing people and so on and that's kind of more so you're telling well so you know it's a of course stretch yourself at some points but then if you readtelling a story for inference for humor value of it within your own character and what amuses you and intends to amuse others as well though help the strategy igor mentions you know if you find something funny yourself you

know there's a British Scottish comedian called Billy Connolly has anyone heard of Billy Connolly I think that's his style of comedy very much is he's just he's he he gets into telling a story and he finds it funny and he thinks nothing of kind of like cracking up himself from stage about the joke but to get practical their cat story never told that story before I mean literally happened last week and I kind of knew that it was you know I could see that it

had potential I had this central idea because I I did actually end up in mybedroom with the door closed off by car is this going to come down what you know and I just thought I'd at the time I was like this is ridiculous so this is going to be a good gotta be some minors in this as I started telling story I had no idea which bits you'd find funny which but she wouldn't just simply when you did laugh I noticed sometimes repeated what I was doing we

incorporate later it's it's it's in the report in the relationship that you build up with the audience that what I did until I was until about 2020 we did the younger and training three or four saying about 2001 2002 I did try us training with angela oh no I did the masters must provide a ride on the trainer fitness training before then and got the whole modeling thing down pat

one of the first things I did cuz I never thought that I was funny I didn't you know I thought I told good stories but I didn't experience myself as afunny person on stage I think I can make people laugh and I went out and i got a whole load of videos Billy Connolly Bill Hicks ed is add just a whole bunch of comedians i sat down I put myself in a in a modern state of trance state I watched the videos

through I gave myself did not exist gestures to you know to learn and to identify with those role models you know I did I i likely lock myself away for a week with those videos added every day as a very intentional and then for the next month or so I was I was you know who's coming out with routines practicing some of the things I'd heard them to finding myself you know coming out with their voices and their

mannerisms of things like this as I was experimenting in public and over the course of you know to three months people started laughing at me I mean in a good way and so you know so I don't think I was very funny until about two thousand and two and now I do think I'm quite funny and you'll notice if you watch i mean Eddie Izzard is a master at anchoring Andrean corporation he tells a fantastic

you know he'll do a whole load of routines and each routine ill come up with a little mine or something you know random and then at the end he'll put he'll he'll tell a story in it and he'll put all of those little minds into the story so he's basically reach triggering all of those bankers if you watch Ken Dodd with his pickle stick again he's he's he he is doing this waving at the sections of the audience that he's laughing to his responses he is

anchoring that laughter you'll see some comedians doing it with tapping the mic you'll also see them a favorite thing is they'll steal the previous two mediums something from the previous comedians mannerisms or no or set and you know and the step into them into the laughter and the appreciation that the previous speaker has got so there are you know if you want to be funny take a look at that and maybe try some deep trance identification

questions or comments good morning rolling with alright well I'm just so glad that you are teaching is so complete that youdon't feel that you need to learn anything will do something or despite all the things they have hope and pray that robin stage in life we have number question okay just a very quick to be doing something called trance words

today was a question posed the question specifically is when you're listening to somebody you will be but there are certain keywords they dropping in their subconscious though activation were amazing or it was such a wonderful feeling for example those words will slip right through violence now quickly when you repeat that storing workers but story back today or what if things are about to come onto is how that ideas that further and how can we take the

actual raw materials inside their mind contra territory that they're responding to without realizing and and work that into your story so that the story actually feel like their story so the language can be part of it but really it's about the whole medical behind this kind of more coming into the question is asking here you know if you can recall the story told herself as a child you're probably living room right now right

yes doing a lot more questions my mind will begin yet before we step off with some content conscious just suggested LXi systems up a bit and get a start at second you feat remember those hips when we're not going to hold Tony Robbins way but I like to do is just turned to the personal your left and say hi good morning and one

behind you and share just one thing one thing enough share one piece of learning one major piece of learning that you can take away and use from this weekend all right now that actually warmed up yesterday told a bunch of stories that correct you did the day before and you know that some of stories really hit home in 2008 I can tell a story and some stories by like there's something missing here

re-engage know very interested what might be happening that hands up and around the content of the stories not resonating with a very nice word resonating what that might be it doesn't match their experience write your story know their story right not only does not match their experience but it may not be relevant right now to their immediate leads like the nested

loop patents years rita was struck by how many was it that you become a larry and I think that way but I don't know whether it's nice to be nice to see my status magical ability to I could just sit down anywhere and I the track some crazy person and it would be like a champ and they did you know that sitdown and they start rambling away and start telling me about one story in the next segment another one and then another one another while I'm kind of

losing the plot and one wondering why I'm here but I'm still listening is actually I wish I discovered that you know you can learn some really interesting things about people by by actually pay attention and listening but but yeah you know get into that sense of frustration of ya gotta go now but I can't go because you're in the middle of a story and you and so you know I hadn't learned to that point to just go I'm really sorry I just I just have to go to

plan your escape route in advance and there are actually a video on my blog about this I think there's there's four elements to ensuring that your storyit's congress that the person experience and juice the men for simple elements the first is I could have two beautiful legal help me what are they gonna oh yeah passion and now I'm referring to the that the same passion I mentioned in the earlier five elements model that it is your passion

if you have passion for something that is often enough to engage people as they're thinking that come from where this is going people people often people we have a kind of a box that we put around ourselves that limits are prepared to express how far we're prepared to go and if you can step outside the box one of the most powerful things that you can do is a storyteller i think is by going somewhere vulnerable you know whether

it's tears laughter whether it's anger sometimes by going far enough out there you give other people permission to follow you and i three powerful thing at the same time you have to keep the ongoing rap or should be the second element and by report there i mean everything you know from you NLP and hypnosis training the unconscious interplay of posture gesture non-verbal communication that goes on between us we work together

the third element is jeopardy any ideas what I mean by that jeopardy danger yeah it's how much have I got to lose yeah what's at stake here the more there is at stake this is why movies typically about you know the end of the world saving somebody from being murdered you know so it's it's what's the Jeopardy and I guess I don't know what you guys

found a doctor who was always one of my favorite 12 hours kid and maybe I still watch a few episodes maybe I should check out there on a Saturday US Attorney episode and you know every episode page doctor who has to save the universe from the invasion of aliens and it's all in how they managed to save the universe how many foot for like 40 years every week I mean I got seven seas around here let us go home and eat ice cream and

know that we say so you might have stories about over you know I was I was present when a volcano erupted you know I was hanging by my fingernails from the edge of a cliff looking down wondering what was going to happen next and how I get out of this situation I was told I had an incurable illness jeopardy risk US lives and that fourth frame relevance how is this relevant to the person I'm talking

to you now we're all human beings are you sure about that and we and so we share a certain set of universal experiences we were all born most of us had parents at one time or other certainly primary caregivers and one kind of other we all had some kind of experience with the education system we've all fallen in love we've all been afraid these universal human experts here so I just imagine why

do it then she chases me down the street gangs of course you can get all of those and your story then you're away the question is relevant how do you know what's relevant people tell you without telling you directly and in some situations they'll tell you because they want you to help solve a problem in other situations you're playing a more active role in wanting to be able toinfluence whether because you're leading a strange process when you get a team

together yourself in those situations it's really important to consider what the world viewers what the belt in shower of your audiences audience that's good he knows how to spend it I think about an example that may relate directly how many of you do stop smoking right weight loss hypnotherapy your client when they when they come in we'll be telling themselves particular

story about five times the road I just can't quit its so hard conference battle against these cigarettes just like a fight at my fight and ok I would lose the same keywords in there can anybody tell me what they are battle fight right so what's the what's the what's the underlying world view that it's it's battle struggle that's right you know I know it's been hard for

you hasn't it and you've probably had you know opportunities he had only two battles to stop and yet you're still you haven't given up yet you still want to win the war right I do back again feat it painful yet ready to give up well you know I'm really glad you came you come here today because this is gonna be an opportunity to really rally you forces together get the you know get the supplies you need in place and set things up so you have a well coordinated

plan of attack you may or may not use to use that secure approach you might you might take you to refrain that story in the first place but you get where I'm coming from people will come will will drop certain keywords that give you clues to their entire metaphorical landscape and it's also affected in in that you know you'll come out in terms of their motivation why why they hear you know do they want

to stop smoking because it's there you know they're concerned about their health is it because they see themselves as a family is very important to them and actually they're doing it for their kids kids very common so you really want to be able to find a dress what that world view is do that well let's start with simple exercise and let's let's consider just have a quick quick minute each way

impairs situations where you've missed it when you talk to people and think about it now looking backwards on it they probably offer dinner plate what the perception was that worldview was a journey were fighting a war where they nurturing a garden or a family of some sort they presented their perception of the metaphor online whatever the situation was when you miss it and you may be wrong with your own and so there's a clash of some sort

consider the alternatives well you know somebody's said something to you and and missed your worldview or less than a minute find a partner of you go I'm so with you with the same partner just keep it simple for now what I like to do is taking turns to one of you come up with a problem area it may be a genuine problem maybe something you make up if you make it up just think of a specific person who generally had that problem just so you can channel it more

effectively so you get more sense of the kind of answer they would give your personal problem coach for now coaching coach as a coach and when you to ask one simple question so this whole problem in your life the reason that's brought you here what's that like i dont have taken the whole problem to encompass the whole situation which way to go to the global

view is not asking for any content you know i three details what do you do what happens let's find out what comes out when you ask that question to ensure peace peace of ago so kind of interesting symbols did you get and of course you're still getting things came out with you guys this is the interactive portion and up ahead of the recipes I thought it was a great question what's the whole thing like was

great questions to to find out what Doughty's wants to get her feelings ok that's not what we're looking for the purpose of this exercise is because people will typically respond in certain ways that aren't what we're looking for and you thank you very much for giving us one of those examples but let me ask you this did you at any point was attacked by the feeling and so on

did something symbolically important flip out that's where hunting office so we'll get some more examples we get as a group and ideas about RSPCA animal come over there have been hijacked me I had a really tough time even understanding that exercise to begin with because you know they're saying okay well how do you feel about that or what's your view about that it's like well I have no context in which to put it in okay so this whole problem malaria that you

chose to focus in in a sec size whether it's real or imagined we don't need to know what's it like for you well I told him it's frustrating because I don't know what is expected okay thanks very much for that so you're telling me about your feelings I didn't ask you that when I ask you is what's it like this whole situation in your life like the problem situation

okay thank you very much let's get the next question in this there many ways you can think of something like you can feel it you can talk about other situations were just similar and so on right so what we're interested in right now is if you are going to give us an analogy would be what scenario would seen what kind of world would best represent the problem would be like for example you know the film Forrest Gump

life is like a box of chocolates or other things too so what's your problemlife so you're getting it about my room so what is the problem that you thinking about you're talking about with your partner would that be like if you were like anything but let's move on move on thank you so before it is talking this is an important step right now because we're getting past the the normal social

interaction element and somewhat more country's territory which is quite difficult to get there but if the story is classically there because I would have a problem right and important to make the next step because that's where we connect to the kind of stuff that was being asked about earlier on over here which they really are constant error right ahead I just like to share something that was in the first exercise when when when we were thinking about

what's not happening what's not helping it made me realize something that may be of importance to you and I'm willing to share that even though it's kind of bad things remain thank you because I wasn't my stop smoking plans were not very very successful I would say just above 50% that's happened now that I realize it happened ever since I read the very famous englishman that is very has been very successful in this area with logical arguments breaking down how the

smoking thing goes consciously and I read the book I started to apply some of it but it ended up being being a fire that I'm fighting the clients on his own world they would just end up like this ok now I got myself into some trouble yeah that was something that I think broke down little bit a lot of rapport with many people trying to force them into my way

of helping missus important point which goes to the heart of we talking about here which is never disagree with their country's mind because all you do is trigger defense mechanism as you noticed and what we're looking for years to figure out what is the unconscionable attached to what is the metaphor is working from doing so by passive resistance because you go oh great now in a country where it so this whole problem or situation that brought you

here today whether it's a match real real we don't need to know what's that like when that thing that's like it's like watching and a bubble not paying attention ok ok right so if it's like you're walking in a bubble fantastic thank you that's enough for now Glen over here then we're withdrawing a problem and he talked to me that he told

me that he was willing to stay awake and the other day he was sired so the image while he was trying to get you last drop off the orange but the next day george was completely dry that's the image that's a very nice image ok can I just ask simply this problem situation that's brought you here today what's it like yeah what's it like

I don't have any frustration about that because I thank you for telling me about your feelings and your behavior I'm asking you what it's like it's like an orange being squeezed dry every day to the last drop ok the back up plan here like being in a strange house trying to find the door out there many doors ok it's like you're in a strange house is trying to find

your way out and there's lots of different rooms and I those ladies ok over there and then has been my from the catch phrase Argo was a pain in the ass right thank you it's like a pain in the ass when we got home associated with what what's your name sorry I let it probably came up with his first is it's like facing a wall of tough ok great know where it's like I'm facing a wall of tasks ok about this now will duty morning with another exercise

there was one back for a patient and behind you have been down here as they go so you go ahead and we'll come over here it's like a very difficult not that we are trying to untie thank you a lot like I'm trying to entire really difficult not go ahead with my partner Julianne Hough it was like I think for both of us being in a silent movie and the money just isn't enough know what it's like I'm in a silent movie and I can't hear anything anyone because it's

like I'm in a silent movie ok I suspect if you explore that a little bit more you'd find you actually in a bubble butt that had another time ok time to ya so quick exercise on this now to get the idea of the kind of things we're not really looking for a NASCAR talk about so having a chat with your partner any problem including the one you might be for sale about not be able to figure out how to do the exercise that's what I like and the question is when we say

what's that like you looking for anything which is like an analogy a simile and metaphor whatever these words mean to you you looking for some other situation that somehow describes how this particular and feels them how they perceive in some ways and I just like to play out that's happening or act reacted when I tried to give her something wasn't right

very strong and that's important because you don't always get it right it'simportant to to notice and test because people are often really much clearer about what it's not like they are what it's like to take them and and you see how people it's it's quite difficult to get through the are conscious reactions behavior feelings vision it's and you'll see people going like this processing as they try and answer the question what it's like I'll be glad when we have a

microwave these the point of this is it too sore understand the subconscious map coordinates as they're experiencing something so the world maps and I understand how that for the moment by moment doing much about how you use it will get onto that the main thing is you looking for in in if that's the question you're asking you are looking for more unconscious continent conscious one that

will come back to most of all the fluff all the usual stuff that they would give you in this situation you might choose to work with where it is is left brain stuff this like question marks straight onto what they're right brain representation is going to be a majestic for this meant to message you again and we'll come back and see if we can make it easier for the next round after this one didn't end up a little bit you're talking about what you got the second

time round and it was any easier or oral different and will do another round in saving make it even easier again go ahead with a lot easier this time around answers though we both got much more interesting right excellent so doing as an example yes it was the problem was like being on a bicycle and peddling and the foot keeps

leaving office beautiful thank you nice simple medical their right and already some material that might be useful some time to come emerged yet very nice thank you your head like walking into Macys like walking animes right again decide nowthat it's the most symbolic elements of the underlying stuff signed come out right now but there was something very quickly and will add another round of

excitable yet to be held up the middle for a boat was like slipping in the morning actually be in the morning and have a look that's really write you push this news better yeah and then again and again very nice and when you eventually wake up and get that it's too late to have breakfast right now give her the whole story there right now do you still had a slight difficulty coming up with some kind of a metaphor simile is all right hand up you had a difficult teen

says something to its a bit more risky strategy with a stranger but if you have a point enough we're not going to engage is a very simple way that you can get young contrast material assembled come out and basically you need them very politely you misunderstand them right so with someone like to have a problem with it like to have a good example if you have a real thing anyone had a problem before I have given them I could do so what's the general problem area have to

go to 19% results problem I'm working on right and I feel a little bit nervous though there's no need to feel that great citizen meeting you represent some stuff you're feeling nervous but there's no need to you don't need to feel that nervousness you know that right ok so what's that like so we get the problem coming out kind of I know it

sounds a bit like your Mexican bandit about to jump into a pond shoot everyone you know that with like no surprise so what is it like more like trade of the friend of what's going to happen right so going into a room and not knowing how they're going to react like going into a room and on how people inside are going to react right yes says I jumping into a shark tank and addressing the big fish that's perhaps

tell me something else maybe they're not sure but there's certainly give me a very uneasy feeling ok maybe so if I understand correctly you know there's a rumor going into and you think you're gonna get a hard time from the people in that room is that correct yes and thinking that they're not going to be satisfied then not gonna be satisfied so what are those people like those kind of people are like

salespeople mouth always hard ok said like walking to room with big mouths criticizing people that are gonna be satisfied with what you have to say is that we are saying yes thank you to see how simple it is when you talk a little bit of course making elaborate on that getting richer metaphor and so on the point is if you get stuck on one level don't that's really pretty too

much you could force a little bit more but you know you can do you feel like I was being somehow unfair or do you dislike me for misunderstanding the situation or what emotions like China Stanley but he's not getting it yet not at all we're trying to get me now say that you were not intruding right though the attitude on the one side is respectful in terms of inquiry but you can still produce little bit in terms of what is really like and by preventing

the false analogy the fourth metaphors for simple kind of forces in a little bit now your preference in fact the FAA exercise might be should be not just present your symbol to get a reaction because you'd rather just been coming pure out of their mind was your most important Photoshop metaphor which would have been unfortunate because then that's my fishing history literally however getting stuck on one level is probably little bit and see what comes

out and you get a much nicer smoother process going on yeah so I can do is get mike back spent to meet again find a different partner different problems so you don't use the fresh thing and sit down to seven or chat and Austin what is that like and if they don't understand at first you're free to misunderstand it sometimes you have plan B and Plan C you know give an analogy you ask an analogy and then actually give a false example the more

extremely force it is the less like you are going to defeat with their symbol right of you so at the risk of sounding like and up who is getting a small percentage of getting two more symbolic stuff to come back here and I will come forward to get a sense that there is more symbolic for stuff coming out now yes go ahead to me she gave me a really good simple straight off already

ok I deliberately giving a slightly ridiculous much better than the first book agreed that really did doesn't matter ok excellent tool for exploring and getting richer things back right what I think I'd notice the second time around well kept coming to work his symbol to bring him some part of the advantage of symbols is you don't get so stuck in the continental credit card logic of the

reasonableness of the problem you're working more symbolic round where symbolic solutions can work to understand it but it's interesting and very hot stuff okay and that fit the context the apartment talk about ok so you wanna make sure you get as much as close to get their symbols outrun introducing your thing I know what it's like kind of like when when Robin was

misunderstand me panel earlier on ya you wanna make sure you get what is actually going on inside them that's gonna be the material is gonna be useful for stories when we get around to the point later handed him know when I presented my method for I got another one and it took me off my

metaphor but didn't really help me because I was thrown away like oh nothat's not that's not how the field so for me I would appreciate how is it like to be in so when when the person asked you you gave him a symbol then he misunderstood you on purpose and that to keep other ways that we saying okay great so it is important right if you are getting to the symbolic solve that problem anymore says now that you would then the last question was not have to

do all the time it's more to help you when you get into position where you know the symbolic bed in fact in time we won't be getting too is waking conversationally drive these metaphors without any realizing you doing anything this these are training wheels this is an exercise to help you establish exactly what it is that you're looking and listening for we wouldn't expect you to actually try station on the station you have a conversation like this a

rough night thanks yes what's up you sound like you are feeling a little bit stuck here it stopped in what way well I'm kind of walking through treacle like stuck in that year right and as a conversation might have with a friend in a restaurant or cafe bar right but if you don't know what to look out for that becomes a throwaway line that you know right

ago yeah yeah I got you like that sometime soon and I was like walking through this notice will have your stuff right now with all the talk about different things now right and we did a naturally because I'm sympathize I understand it metaphor I'm searching for similar offenses in my life and I give him my metaphor that means I'm putting my fish industry many countries these fish during here

belong to help these are literally training will to get past being too aware of it and the nice thing is as you become more aware of it you'll hear these things popping out constantly anyways compensation I get likely look into more conversational stuff as we get on with this training stuff now so we had to make this on to the next stage will give you some more choices more questions just to ask and variations on this theme

and would like you to consider some some situation some area where you have a victory when you have a trial for you have a positive we did great proud of you feel happy about a wonderful moment you experience touching moment something just wildly positive and then just have a chat with him again and see if you can get their symbols come out but I have some more questions like what is that like what kind of dog is like what kind of stuck is that right

like walking through treacle alright is there anything else about that treacle that is you know that I starkness metrical clings onto my child every time I take next step it's just like really hard I was getting clear in terms of how we thank you feel about this and then importantly folks at this stage start feeding back exactly what they're saying right so it's kinda like your entry cool and you start and every time you trying to defeat the trigger stocks you should

your your feet and it's hard to lift them up right so that that that the stickiness literally go what is that like well it's like well it kind of goes on forever and forever yeah right you have like a stuck in the streak over and over time trying toestablish just yeah it's like it's like an ocean at redressing it's like Westonsuper Mare

low tide ok did you think of it that you naturally stop pulling out the big metaphor again right now we're doing it mechanically just to get sensitive to these things in time you'll be able to do more conversationally so let's take against the peace different partner and this time your positive happy vibrant in the life of ya so it's getting easier yet yeah I started guests entered the symbols coming out and so on yes any

questions and I so far so we can have a break 90 min in a couple of things first of all when you going to break you will cost you having chit-chat asking what happens so I'm going to invite you to listen out for the hints that as a metaphor underlined kind of conversation you're having and if you should be moved to ask questions like what's that like or know that picture and you're talking about what kind of pigeon exactly is that right then I will complement of

doing that he known to break it in time and you can do whatever you want 50 minute ago

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