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WCHS DVD 04 Escuta so Essa

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constitutional parts and however you are part of it which is as you remember tragedies and comedies in the Technical Committee being happy stories and try to being sad ones change for you and that's a very useful thing development storyteller comments are very wise comment that there are currently three kind of story will tell you tell the stories that you need to hear and you know there is a story to hear because when you tell them it is not a valid one

friend or a group you will find strong emotions coming out and you'd have time he calls the story deals completed their stories that they need to hear and you never quite know why you know that you do you do again using his reference point although I have made of iron as well document of the great storytellers not a therapist and I have no doubt you training experience in life that you would never tell the story to group and

invariably other changes something he had already planned either story or or the way he defines a story invariably at the end of the evening someone comes up to me and said I did you know how do you know that I need to hit us oreo how did you know that somebody loved me or what the fact I have no idea how that works I've had a lot of examples repeated practice of of course I try to get the point where they

say how do you know I'ma robyn has had the same time experiences but those are the two most important stories we'll tell you when you tell yourself that you grow no one to tell other people because somehow you have a sense that there's an important story to tell this point you don't always know which type of story this until you finished quite a few examples of people saying well his his his that this I had this

experience but it's not really a story a story like I you know maybe I okay the most exciting thing that happened to me i i jumped off a cliff really really high cliff and it was just an amazing experience you know to feel that fear and then to you know jump and hit the water you know eighty feet below not knowing what i was gonna feel like anything like that that's an experience as an emotional elicitation story you can imagine eliciting fear and

anticipation and all of those things through that story but in the sense that we're talking about stories here so he's having a beginning a middle and end having a hero antagonistic said he doesn't have those not not immediately obviously but that the tools that the total we gave yesterday and the tools that we give you today are ways of taking their memory and transforming it giving it a different shape so if I just realized that experience then it's just

an experience if I bet if I frame it so you know I was always afraid of heights and till XY said you know when to and then doing this showed me how ABC where does he go said it's not what happens it's what we make it and how we use it and the vet and the act of storytelling is lying memory is lying because we can never capture the whole truth of inexperience and even if we could capture our whole truth that would still only be one perspective on it and other

people would see and hear it differently like obviously eagle has no you know some psychotic reason no ability to see the truth of the bombers and you know you know I am saddened me that robin read understand what I position I help them out but you know we're gonna try to just has a mental block you know that stops in an effort I put into you know they accept that thank you next time I know when we hang covering stories into the group's I

tried it before it was very hard to visualize these concepts what's so why was easier this time to have one word for you hypnosis become a very capable of subject of training in that sense I don't compromise going like oh I can assure you this memory is fundamentally an unconscious process even viewed memory tricks although many chicks are designed

to do is to simply don't want remind into recording it by a mechanism that its predisposed to record for example for Survivor reasons or human beings over some challenges some degree but as a rule people have an excellent spatial memory so that you can run around the forest and understand that this jury and that really different and orient because of it otherwise we will just be one lost masking like I went for a pee and where the hell is everyone right now I don't

know right now we have a very strong memory for locations and by using locations to attach things to which is basically going into a subroutine a program the unconscious or reruns and says okay you running this show anyways so if you put something useful there too right as a rule them more you develop a relationship with your conscious mind the more powerful memory will be at some point I made I should spend a whole week

similar just on memory stuff if you will see that you have a lot of emails in the more people ask for stuff the more likely I can get it through my conscience filter called clash thank you and also he'll remember to do it yeah yeah I can meet you just as a follow-up really want to make these memories something that automatic for you that you can just bring to life you

know as you're inspired to do so by people then transfer it it's about translation between sent systems you know take the visual memory and talk about it take what you can make sure you feel both of those things and tell us stories as a royal family terms of how we go from short-term memory medium-term and long-term memory right now all the story but yesterday medium term memory not

locked in there yet those stories you wish to lock in a follow the simple you said schedule when you add memory to meet later review it and how late he related to review it and a day later week later six months later much later in the year later by the six months to a year mark that will become a permanent memory in a way to will no longer erase a lot of distraction to erase those kind of memories so that's a

very useful way of doing it by reviewer minutes and hours looking at it it's literally mentally you can spend about five seconds just going yet yet yet yet yet yet yet yet yet yet yet and that will cause I had that tells me that's the one that to reinforce lonely and that's it you're good to go and that's the beauty of using the visual system as a starting point was the fastest one and you had all the layers that problem was talking about 10 rigid and other

questions comments in the back morning we're talking about telling stories to one another but what occurred to me was a story that I told myself early nineties because I had a situation and my mother killed herself she shot herself in a closed after that people always say well if a child items I think it's a good trial dying story that you don't have a future

you can't imagine a future well in my case it was the same feeling so I told myself a story that we don't talk to each other stories you tell yourself I told a story that I couldn't see the future but I was ruled the world these people with us and striped shirt white and they were like they were gonna do the future so I said ok well do with them just gonna grab the back of one of the short five years and I'll be a future I don't know which one but that's

how it works really well and I did we thank you for sharing that and it's a very very powerful story in fact story to share with us the most powerful you can tell it's the kind of short stories that shape our very fabric of reality and you've actually for sure it's something we'll be coming into tomorrow which is these stories that we've had our selves me stories that people tell each other and groups and so on that fundamentally shaped the fabric of our

lives and the society that we live in that something which will come into tomorrow as well say thank you for sharing that and just run out of course you can appreciate the story that you just heard is a betrayal life-changing 13 life-and-death many people write the story telling literature can be influential and storytelling can be something that starts with Fox wars right so it's a very powerful things that

you for sharing that anyone else that any other questions right that case let's do some bowling depth so there's a man he's a advertising executive very busy very good yeah he's easily the top ranking sales guy in the in the advert in theadvertising agency by which I mean he's all clients are was lining up to work with this guy really love him and I things happen

becoming very busy a lot of work and you know for whatever reason to get consumer working real of his passion about it but it works does developing a life of its own sake and further further injured and one point I'm starts to get the point where some burning out he just feeling that something's missing this life is a path he's lost touch with his friends he's been through two marriages something's missing here and his boss who's actually a good friend now because

I personally been hanging out with really comes in one day and says youknow your your great advertising executive you really are good at what you do and I can tell vote of late you workers has been suffering it's still genius competitive you ask God but I can see that you're not in a good place right now I think as a friend I'm going to do something that could be useful to you know like it very much

I'm going to force your sabbatical you can take off three weeks four weeks you may not come to work you may not take anything from work go live life go crazy on a world tour go up and do something of course the man who don't like 30 at all is lost is like these prisoners who spend their entire life imprisonment get released they do not make sense of the world a little

frightened but you know his friend trude word has a security guard standing by his desk you can collect any work them out drive home and at first I just sitting at home thinking to myself you know he does all the things he told us if we do you watch late night TV drinks beer which more TV than small beer with a hangover going to do with myself that someone online you get the idea that we're just getting his car and just

drive just drivin to see where he ends up a bottle of water damage in case something happens as tank full of gas is courses sports back in the pack with clothing but said no phone no laptop nothing just drive is playing music on the radio since fighting join selfish driving all day and South going towards evening there something to say and I'm very tired has been driving all day is having a good time but now the adventurous type thing

I can't turn back now he wants to because we just lowered get back rightnow it's time to look out for maybe motel or how somebody can stay butnothing is like in the middle of just open country and it's really nothing around so as soon as far as to say that he's desperate because we need to stay somewhere in the last message cramped car in the middle of nowhere so as he is driving a seasonal health I

like a small mountain tour he'll take your pick what you call it a night of this is his old ramshackle building come like a fantabulous you something this kind of light spotting it cannot find to get to a nighttime himself you know what let's see these guys maybe to hotel maybe to hear these funky you know we treat I places I'll take a risk at the very least I have popularized and right drives around all the winding roads and gets lost a few

times but there's that light up on the hill luckless right on top of the hill he backtracked on another site and getting a little bit lost and after an hour so he gets to the monastery and it's not pitch black stars out in the moon and stars program 10 maybe 11 problem I guess I was cargo that this huge wooden gates and it's got a lot of these gates with a delegation side of a building like man-sized then there was a very big people

and knocked on this door response bang bang bang here the booming sound the word going through what is obviously a very large corridor or hallway behind the reply bang bang bangs again I just bought turnaround get back in his car crash on the back seed when hitler's shuttling coming along some clanking of keys and takes a while but eventually the clanking of keys in the door open and

there's the old monk is brown habit looks up with kindly I ask myself what can I do for you 29 explains know this whole situation he says well you know be driving all day of china's State is nothing around here very sympathetic look and I can stay for one night here I'm sorry to intrude but you know I'll pay you cash and owner of him is very important to us but really it's not between not really are the way

of our order to allow strangers to stay here managed better look please at least one night and I'll be gone tomorrow when we now have been here for their matches alright but I have to after talked tothe father Albert first please give me a moment to recognize and slowly shuffled off again mind waiting for ages instant connectivity of managed forestry

somewhere eight but eventually you hear the stuffing and Turkey start drinking again and it's a little excited dog licks opening the old man opened the door again and are extremists on another man also not as old as the doorkeeper of age that is a dignified you know the strength to it introduces himself as the abbot and said I understand you wanna stay here for the night and and I know

brother Gregory explained to you that we don't normally let strangers in 2002 we are very very very special order a very unique task in this world and it really is not for most people but we can't turn people away need it's part of ourmanagers to help those in need so you may stay here for a night for one night but there is a condition you must accept this condition without reserve because otherwise you may as well just turn around get in your car and drive

somewhere else Daniel desperate anything whatever you say it says right will give your room a simple reminders via amongst women power pitcher of water you must promise when you get into this room you will not leave it until the Sun rises you may not leave this room for any reason until the Sun rises of course happy to have this one other thing no matter what you here tonight

no matter what it is not what you think it is better to think the first thing is you will always be safe no matter what you hear what happens you are 100% safe do not leave your room and please don't ask us about that because of being part of our order not being a monk like us can I tell you the man who the customer problem fine whatever you say he gets led to his sleeping quarters a simple palette is little table with pitcher of water

old-fashioned but pana need to plan wedding cake tonight man just exhausted for the sleep does it fall asleep you click the lock being knocked on the door that he's a very strange one minute past midnight there is the most disturbing sound it's impossible described something as soldiers being tortured it sounds sad and mad sounds like all the grief in the world combined with all the terror demands to the bolt upright and spy out ideas and he's sweating in this

town continues six hours until until just wonder first rays of Sun peeked over the hill crack over them ministry literally the moment our first little crack of sunlight strikes monastery it just turns off lights were switched off lights which man is exhausted and terrify his security in this is bad but eventually you know cutie takes over any falls asleep reminds me here

well then get started on the the seventh category of story actually that feeling of being trapped in a chapter in my head that just a couple of weeks got to see how it's done ever civil this cash and it's been hanging out in my back garden for ages and you know I was kind of ignoring it was hoping it would stop shitting in my garden and stop killing the birds and the fact that their catalogs in the room

no puppies cats I like to be honest I i had i I start to feel affectionate words escape because you know it was always around my house I keep coming in and but at the same time I was going around you know like putting down chili chili powder and drying cabinet into the neighbor's porch garden just to try and get the cap meeting on the anyway my neighbor comes down to to visit my upstairs neighbor and listen at the garden and she strike in this catch

goes oh my god this cat is starving you know if you just noticed how many is not right you can feel its bones through their you know 33 it's fair it's all further basically and the fair is in good condition is it was obviously a black at some point club dark brown almost black color but it's kind of changes which is apparently a sign if you know bad nutrition and stuff like this and it's not having a caller on I know it's been hanging around the back

of the back garden there for at least the last couple of years and my neighbor hannah is going I want you know you have to defeat this cat want you feeling it's clearly starving and I'm like that then I'll just keep coming back you know but in the end I think about it for a couple of days nothing ok by Jennifer kick at Wisconsin you can tell a lot bigger than I like the Wild Ones try I can of cat food

layout for it straight there you know wolfing it down clearly starving the poor kind well you know this stuff and cat you know passing a pet shop a bit like to know why but I find myself back home was like a little mouth to play with anyway I'm justing 22 the new life you know maybe I have adopted this cat now

and knocking on my door go to the front door this huge guy Justin motorcycle that'll let love letters standing there is still much diabetes diabetic cats food that is rich in sugar and carbohydrates one thing they can't digest it and second that blood sugar levels start going up and down and they could I am not feeling too bad about this to be on this because I fed a starving care to look like a straight right I certainly suggest that

perhaps a collar that says don't feed me I'm diabetic might be useful but his attitude is never had any problems around the house nineteen years old doctor for nine years old I understand what would you want me to bring my vet bills ran for yes that we will maybe you want to share them with me I'm really really sorry I didn't stand situation of work to again ok

unprofitable things right because the cats not going to lie still sitting in the back garden and thinking oh my god what's she gonna now this big motorcycle guys attached to the caps I reached out to stroke the cash so struck my phone started to feel a bit tense about using the back garden sorry this is unfair we really don't have time for this now they're taking just indulge me please forgive me

about the seventh category of stories and we can look at today is transformational stories stories about transformation stories that inspire transformation now you may have noticed that these categories that we're giving you are not clear cut and obviously one story as Milton Erickson demonstrated so effectively one-story can serve many purposes and the the the situation see events that you've been describing your stories when you apply that model of

five elements to it that's one way of kind of that memory kind of gets shaped and more things change the more towards what we that bad shape that we recognize unconsciously as the shape of the story yeah and I am gonna give you another model just really simple three phases beginning middle end if you could if my assistant could just transcribe it for me so in the beginning

was the Word was made flesh that's a different story in the beginning the beginning section you clearly articulate the problem or challenge or question in the middle section you demonstrate explain the struggle getting feeling the struggle the journey and in the end you present the moment of awareness that leads to transformation in the transformation it was it was asking me about this yesterday and somebody was pointing out that the film

typically happens is somewhere in the beginning section they will out outline the heroes floor what it is that the the hero needs to overcome and then the leaves and they'll be all kinds of other things going in another play elements blah blah blah and they'll play they played jeopardy right until the end and then right at the end you know you have a success against the antagonist in the attack and it's a big villa will come back and you know it's spiderman look

like just about to get it and then and then suddenly right at the end there will be the moment they'll be the the moment where the hero overcomes his floor and and that's the strength the the true that the awareness that enables him to be the victor to try to transform and any story that you have become that kind of story

ultimately and it's in the passion that you tell it in the way that you tell usthe way that you draw people in its in the relevance of the story you choose to the audience that you tell us well be very good at telling stories of course going through things like hypnosis NLP my own training training and so on

stories are kind of demand another part of we supposed to do remember before I was if you take every possible element of uselessness of public speaking goes and putting one person that defines me a record as a junior lawyer said of the Frankfurt office and they had a thing with type of the University where one of the lawyers would go in every year and present two segments on English law and of course the office very busy and stuff going on so very beautiful delegate

Junior member who can truly say no because you see the ball tumbling nope nope nope you do it of course they said it should be very easy because the lectionary been outlined by previous few years ago don't worry he's he's he's written the whole like the two legged out for your ready for talks and says the curtain up toread it is going right turn out of his room full of students and they have like

a square square with your boredom style there will be a serious thing they're looking at me and in Germany of course students and people are older than in England because they have to their low price gets extended and very much my love me Mr suffered at the very serious about understanding British law because the deal with international at some point trade so here I am reading my notes through it and try my best to the first man she

read the stuff right I'm trying my best Russian makes sense of the actualsentence and there is a joke on the part of punchline yes punchline I carry on reading and sweating profusely at the end of this seminar they are politeenough to not gonna take us away the applause goes I hope I did they could have black household and they got this text typing impeachment around the feathers with my proudest moment so really my career presented

pretty much ended with that something happened in those trainings trying to represent them and some along the lines of many different stories in Attock stories training stories all kinds of stuff and they could seat and I used to love just hearing them but I could just sit there for hours I did put my learning process I would get the day to give it to the audio tapes of my fav instructors of

people admiring you listen to the audio tapes of them actually wore out and this also hates me this is when many dis became like a whole new thing I was were the first people actually lemme disc player such as Friday's fading tapes and too many discs died in case you were wondering and I would listen to my fav part with your stories which is running a bit I don't think I could do to my trainers training of course part of it is a story to prepare people for

whatever 2670 doing and so on and I was almost always wear a bit weak you know I I kind of didn't functionally adjust the DL on the checklist that they're looking for saudis throw them out of everything much of it people very nice but then of course to be nice and some of the feedback so I didn't think much of it I think I think much of the story telling and i did i do pretty well not really enjoyed it got my certificate hey I'm still at an early

stage no commission and at some point not long after I got into my head that you know maybe maybe this would be an alternative career would like to get into the idea of teaching people things are very busy coach trainer there were kind of stumbling around my mind to experiment with alternative approaches and so the very first thing they did back to the UK is I range for his practice groups you

know like I did notice practice group of people and himself I arranged to go there and and and teach an evening class like a mile and a half hour class with a free just to get my training schools going rate of course publishing schools telling stories and whatnot and I figured I'd invite my father down so you could see what I was planning to do I just had my resignation into yours in my notice period he was very supportive and very concerned but very very supportive

family go for do it and if you need to cause I suspect the fact that my law firm said that my job is open to me if I needed every to come back and help me help me so I found out that I started doing this thing was really very simple 700 States later P performance of course bring it all out tell us a story get people into the movement against and we would be like people clapping like the room with my dad for a nice thanks very much but in

the last mister on a stage fright and that night I went to dinner with my father and simple dinner they certainly can be a thing that really charming and that really very good he said you know you go when you told me that you're leaving the law firm to another career always supported you right now I was a little concerned authority will not but after seeing the look of most people's faces tonight

writing them so then I realized I could tell stories something like that but i think i mean there are some stories i mean one of the things that I'm really clear on in in my coaching is that if you want to tell extrude extraordinary stories the touch people's lives then you have to be extraordinary you have to go out and do extraordinary things put yourself in situations where you take risks were you learn where you allow the universe to present you with the

opportunities to transform and many of the stories I tell our moments like that however that not all you know we don't always go through life having those moments every day and it's useful to be able to construct a story to takesomething because you know you want to say something and you have something to say that will be useful and you think well how can I help explain this journey I'm going on and make it into transformation of story I've had a

running joke with the Randy who's just left out left the building so let's talk about what is going on which is basically I started a few days ago telling telling a story it was the one about my mates ringing me up just before he went to the poker game and this is a genuine thing that happened he came to see me before he went to a poker game and I had a conversation with them I did a little bit of messing with friends you know he

could do and he went away and you know he came back the next week and he said I wasn't I 150 quit I haven't won anything for two years by 150 could deny please can I should I and I've been trying to tie dye told that story to the assistance into just went like this you know I told again I told that to you first have not allowed back I did the one-sentence version of the story I got a law firm

Eagle he's he's quick enough to get it right away right so I i but i dont wanna to illustrate the it's it's going back to this idea of artists artistry the the interplay between conscious mind and unconscious mind and what I will do a lot with stories is tell them and fail and not worry about it and just go well you know that wouldn't work I'm gonna try to get on somebody else you know trial may be for try this I don't just try and see what responses I guess

sometimes I get a laugh and sometimes I get a and then I never talk to them again yeah and that's that's just part of the process of refining and telling stories so I'm going to to you very quickly see if I can create one of these live from something I've never thought about before the report that Pokemon yeah right

ok I have a sense of something I want to articulate and it's actually about being on stage and going out there and and training and being successful and so that's kind of where the general area and I've got some thoughts about the journey but it's not very clear from the beginning is when you finally persuaded me after much cajoling and but frankly bribery flattery blacking out one point maybe about to make this a good story I i flew into the

Bahamas and you know the thing is for the last you know the last three or four years I very much been kind of just running my my little private clinic seeing clients are referred to me and keeping a low profile as the thing isback in well in my twenties when I was much younger than your twenties when I was in my twenties I ironically a company that was very successful doing what it did

you know it wasn't a great nationally successful or anything like that but in the town where I live it was the biggest thing going and hundreds of people kind of came through that theater company got their start in theater and I realized that while I was good at was created space people to learn from each other from their mistakes and have a good time doing it but there were elements of my success which I really didn't like while I I like it when you laugh I love it

when you clap and come up and tell me how how great I am you know but at the same time I icon of you know I was mister Shakespeare in the Park in those days and that meant that everyone and anyone involved in the town thought they could say what the hell they liked about me and they thought that you know they could they would they they knew me because I had a public place and that men are attracted all kinds of weirdos I attracted you know stories about that

were inspired by jealousy and envy you know he's you know yeah yeah he sees this is that blah blah blah I know he does this and I'm so that you know that so this kind of dark my freckles and egg recall it's like a dark spirit made up of all the gossip the bad rumors that people spread about you and these these things can come to follow you around you know that right here comes the territory and then there was the other things like I can start a relationship with somebody

I never knew whether it was me they really like or whether it was because I was that guy you know and could help them in their career or something like that because I'm actually quite a private person in lots of ways I like my family I like spending time in my garden hanging out with my daughter go for walks and I didn't I didn't really I didn't really have the energy or the motivation to want to go out there and do that and so was as ago said I spent a

lot of time just saving the world one person at a time and this was a realstruggle for me check and I think there was also a long time practicing Buddhist meditation and and and trying to become tutor unattached from my ego and I always thought that you know that that desire that you needed a lot of ego to kind of be that guy he's done that then goes yeah right look at me you know I can teach people

what to do but stand up on that pedestal no bearing on me in the partners you know i i talked to your right you know how to talk to the guys who were there are still still really really struggling with this and struggling just for wait to see my way clear to to being able to you know to go out there and be more energetic and productive in my my work because I have an extra motivation right and it wasn't until coming here actually

that things really changed and it wasn't anything illegal said I did although you know seeing just how focused he was the entire time on your learning just how dedicated he keeps his state of each plus plus plus when he'd been dealing not just one on one with the whole aspect of the way he runs this training know that might give me the idea that you could do these things without being too

to school was I was listening to you guys and your stories and hearing not just the the skills you learn but hearing from so many people how what you've learned had touched your lives individually in a deeply personal way and helped you to make transformations in your life and that come about learning this stuff and reading it and it was you know it wasn't his ego sat down and gave you the

session with you or anything like that because he introduced you to some ideas and some ways of thinking that you that were then able to take and applying your own lights and I suddenly realized that there was a way that you can affect people really deeply by the message that you that you said with people and there's something that there was that there is a teacher Geico Ram Dass who he was originally a college professor at Harvard or MIT anyway he was timothy

leary's bus when timothy leary before when Timothy larry was unacceptable established member of the scientific community rather than a day most dangerous man in the world and he went around us went off to India and became a girl and I got a type of him in 1979 standing up in front of people he saysit's my comment to do this what you make of it as your cover transformational stories beginning middle end time for exercise I think so

get the idea so find partner I've come up with a new experience something that's happened to you or take one of the things stories that you've already come up with and see how just developing pulling out those five elements and looking at that structure there helps to just really shake that into a transformation story now if it helps you do this you may find it easier to you can think of a specific context and particularly receive pic person they

would like to transform inspired some way and think about you your ownexperiences in life what have you been through that if they had gone through something similar like him a sense of where to take things next on their own lives more specific make it a more detailed content and if you see we might take you then that's fine too do yeah let's give five min two piece by piece of time in total to explore the

idea little bit he doesn't understand just know bonding thing it does matter where it ends up that matter if you make it through the whole structure it's the at this point jon is more important as a nation will will play the destination more in due course ok guys I talk to go okay guys they go into saying yeah well more detail in the cold they would get so just comments questions in terms of the exercise your hand up and bring in my queue

something they really are and yes yes it was strictly to the point where it was she basically said if you don't mind me sharing you know she's basically had a friend that was like closed up and didn't want to keep logging going to restaurants water back and she said would have been nice if she just made the decision turned away but you did it okay let her know that she closed it up with you know they found the restaurant

right so we just experience is your unconscious storyteller in action saying it's not complete yet something missing here and that's why they would let one of the reason we tell stories out loud because they sound very different ones Wesley open mouth and put now they're gonna head I i told something normal stories in my head which we work so well in real life so this is a useful thing and by the way it's not a

national story doesn't work so well it says that you need to get adopted to fit other people as well on the way so well done that's really how you build stories from from just events into something more powerful thank you I have a question about that actually like it's to you by your story if you don't mind because there's a moment there where you have your face with the decision do i turn my back and walk away just got this isn't worth the effort

yeah it was her friend who write so what is it that makes it going what is the process the process was that she was aware of having a choice about it at that moment and so she was she's kind of keeping going but unwillingly ok did you have a good time happy story she had a hard time but it was totally unnecessary so because the positive solution came ok so is the awareness and the realization the fact realizing she has a choice about who she hangs out with yes ok I

just wanna get anything you know when you're clear about that it makes it easy much easier to capture the story yea well sadly there's no story left the room well you're also good I just I could be discouraged addition server yesterday you prefer to do with it I steps a little person so you just simplification of yesterday whether

yesterday's model had five elements which I believe exists in most stories well i certainly you can find them when you go looking this is more time based this is more time structure so it's different in that extent is that at any and all three of these steps some of course lend themselves more than 500 for example awareness and transformation fits awareness and transformation but the hero will go throughout the and and will be introduced in the beginning

first first beginning hero create sympathy for so yeah it's it's think of these as overlapping structures that you can put together and elements that will be want one until the elements that does go across the heuristics know that was pronounced it took a stick ya tools designed to get you thinking about the structure but not just go out and watch movies listen to some stories people break the structure all the time but it's like with a great work of art

you know if castro had turned up at his first class and gone on know you did lol the famous lawyer kasa but he sure did yes rules and then then bring them around that excites happy so what do now is take the essence and help you still think so you told your transformational story right to about five minutes get it out sometimes more sometimes with relatively easy to get out and just to chat afterwards what would like you to

tell the same story again to the same person only in 30 seconds we're going to use this to help you to scale it down right one sentence one sentence beginning middle and end there's an example I think of the terrible story teller microchip reframe actually towards a law seminar to jump students recovery well and I still listen to my my instructor my teacher trainers telltheir stories love them and felt wholly inadequate initially your copy them do

the same thing as them and went from training and eventually I do I put my very first life similar to paying public my father turned up and I think about me afterwards simple thirty seconds maybe an extra cents when I was younger I experienced the downside of Fame I struggled to find a way to reach out to more people listening to your stories

convince me there was a way that I could do it would be worth it get the idea right so just been thirty seconds apiece like you do with the same partner tell your story in 30 seconds give them a chance to tell their story 30 seconds that's but no more than Minnesota talk about we just did it again based on the feedback we just got from the other person's another 30

seconds to use a refined version so you basically have 123 minutes in total right guys welcome back everyone easy to understand their story better now that you have a thirty second orkut retention solution by author five-minute a longer version right next to the city of scaling up and down as another tool that you have chosen a standard stories as well as being a tool for you to be able to fit

the stories the context that you're in right that's about it ok case of Mikes please assist with mike has all the emotional story you're right and really couldn't relate to each other stories well what else absolutely so there there are ways that you can scale down and still maintain that there is a famous stories as they waited the whole three word story that I i forget the actual competition most writers who can write the most this

story and it's something like paper baby shoes only one wants yeah yeah there is a strong emotion that story but it requires an immense amount of skill to bring that out right and we don't expect that of you at this level we expect you to do is build scale up and down yes the moist cool it down to more than most components that are roading but then you get other advantages like speed and timing

throw an isolated thing out there in time he really if you really focus on itand we were playing with scary stories up and down you may well be able to create things like hemingway did but takes a lot of effort I'm sure it took him a lot of effort to be able to create a very pivotal stories but yes it was a good thing to realize their pascal wrote originated I thinkthat the the famous quote that has been attributed to many people but I'm sorry

I didn't have time to write you a letter and something else just with that i mean what we'll be doing for the rest of the day after the the morning session is is looking at how you can identify there really is all that lets the hypnotic elements that create connection that you know help build powerful sensory representations in your audience and yes bike scaling down stretchy you're losing all of that but what you're creating

what you're getting is through line and actors talk about this a lot right as well what's the through line of the character what's their narrative what'stheir drive when you have that in place then it's a lot easier than you've got that you've got that energy in the story and it's a lot easier to then add in those elements that emotional connection thank you for your question thank you and really is having that clarity that allows them to realize

which point he emphasized them right out of him and how is that ok young man here beautiful he was able to I just love the way he took his story and what it down but it reminded me that when I was younger I had a minister who taught me how to be able to take your story and bring it down to a minute 23 minutes because he's I may never have another chance to impact your life so you have to learn how to do the stories that have the emotional yeah I'm just so

happy that has been told her its importance that listen to what this woman has to say is a phenomenal story with some people that have spoken to the have when they tell their stories the they're accessing the state in there and we're so people are it's how do you begin to end to the state that is a great question welcomed the answer that then be back off the brake was not just yet but

moments in a few moments where textiles first but that's really but will be addressing the break that is a very important question anyone else then let's have that last text I we just promised before the break you taking your transformation authority to condense it down into like 30 seconds or the sound bite him over if you would like to do now is to choose one or two of the stories you told yesterday just simply mind quickly like one of two of

those and again put him through the structure feeding condense it down to about 30 seconds just three sentences each right now just presented very quickly the presenter you presented other wonderful another one will then take a break and then we'll look at the performance elements that allow you to take that build it back up again with a glorious impact remember these are just these scales is a drills that helped train your way of thinking it's a it's a

it's a conscious to that you let go of as you gain more after strict alright guys lets take to mississippi's total ago I like a good who understands some authority told yesterday better now yeah so the the value of scaling is one when you only have a minute you can tell in a minute

a number to it allows to reinvest and the essence of what you're trying tocommunicate that when you start building it up again you can actually build up in the right direction rather discuss floundering around getting confused byin fact right so simple break you have a whole bunch of stories right now at least some and probably understand more just the mechanism of creating them don't be surprised if you find yourself remembering stories at the relevant

situation remember this is an artificial situation you know we're asking you to generate stuff for no reason and in life that's not how it works we tell stories that are directly relevant to our media ongoing experience don't be surprised if the stories that you come up with become relevant somewhere along the line of something summer break I think fifty-minute there are guys thanks very much

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